Republican state
representative Sally Kern
spoke
recently on homosexuality. “I honestly think it’s the biggest threat our nation has, even more so
than terrorism or Islam,” she said.
She chairs the Oklahoma House Education
Committee, no less.
If you take three
or four minutes to listen, I think you’ll realize she’s sincere, just (in my
view) ignorant and misguided.
But I bring this
to your attention because her speech elicited this
remarkable letter from a high school senior:
Letter From Tucker
Rep Kern:
On April 19, 1995, in Oklahoma City a terrorist
detonated a bomb that killed my mother and 167 others. 19 children died that day. Had I not had the
chicken pox that day, the body count would've likely have included one more.
Over 800 other Oklahomans were injured that day and many of those still suffer
through their permanent wounds.
That terrorist was
neither a homosexual or was he involved in Islam. He was an extremist Christian forcing his views through a body
count. He held his beliefs and made those who didn't live up to them pay with
their lives. . . .
I was five years old when my mother died. I remember what a beautiful,
wise, and remarkable woman she was. I miss her. Your harsh words and misguided
beliefs brought me to tears, because you told me that my mother's killer was a
better person than a group of people that are seeking safety and tolerance for
themselves.
As someone left motherless and victimized by terrorists, I say
to you very clearly you are absolutely wrong. .
. .
I've spent 12 years in Oklahoma public schools
and never once have I had anyone try to force a gay agenda on me. I have seen, however, many gay students beat
up and there's never a day in school that has went by when I haven't heard the
word **** slung at someone. I've been called gay slurs many times and they hurt
and I am not even gay so I can just
imagine how a real gay person feels. You were a school teacher and you have
seen those things too. How could you care so little about the suffering of some
of your students?
Let me tell you the
result of your words in my school. Every openly gay and suspected gay in the
school were having to walk together Monday for protection. They looked scared.
They've already experienced enough hate and now your words gave other students
even more motivation to sneer at them and call them names. After all, you are a
teacher and a lawmaker, many young people have taken your
words to heart. That happens when you assume a role of responsibility in your
community. I seriously think before this week ends that some kids here will be
going home bruised and bloody because of what you said.
I wish you could've met my mom. Maybe she could've guided you in
how a real Christian should be acting and speaking.
I have not had a mother for nearly 13 years now and wonder if
there were fewer people like you around, people with more love and tolerance in
their hearts instead of strife, if my mom would be here to watch me graduate from high school this spring. Now she won't be there.
So I'll be packing my things and leaving Oklahoma
to go to college elsewhere and one day be a writer and
I have no intentions to ever return here. I
have no doubt that people like you will incite crazy people to build more bombs
and kill more people again. I don't want to be here for that. I just can't go
through that again.
You may just see me as
a kid, but let me try to teach you something. The old saying is sticks and
stones will break your bones, but words will never hurt you. Well, your words
hurt me. Your words disrespected the memory of my mom. Your words can cause
others to pick up sticks and stones and hurt others.
Sincerely
Tucker